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不做好自己就不會明白什麼是愛
戀愛是一種新鮮感
感情到了一個階段一定會變淡
哪一方面做不好自己問題就會出現
怎麼完美的愛情也會變成悲劇
是不是現實上根本沒有真愛呢?
也許那種戀愛的感覺是在剛開始的時候才存在的
之後兩個人需要一起堅強的面對問題﹐要不然會有了距離
真愛的存在很不實在﹐也不長久
懂得愛自己﹐才懂得什麼是愛
不愛自己很容易會對別人動心
該是想把別人的愛護當自己的自信心吧
從新開始一段新的感情問題也會重複
最好努力做好自己﹔ 到時對被愛護的要求就會減少
有能力照顧自己﹐別人的愛護只是個 Bonus
沒有了這種需要壓力就不會太大﹐ 愛也不會變成自私感
雙方面做好了自己才能夠互相了解﹔
有了自信心面對事情也會看開
這樣的感情才會長久
我是說感情﹐不是說愛情
戀愛過後的感情才是永久的

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LOVING YOURSELF FIRST
When we feel hurt by what we think is "love", it is because we are looking to others to validate our own self worth. When we feel unworthy of love, it is difficult for others to love us the way we think we should be loved. And when we hang on to unsatisfying love just because we feel a desperate need to be loved, we leave ourselves open to heartbreak and disappointment. How can others make us feel loved when we don't love ourselves first?

The greatest act of love is to love ourselves first. It is in loving ourselves unconditionally that we set a standard for how we want to be loved by others. Do you love yourself enough to demand the love you deserve from friends and partners? Do you love yourself enough to receive the love you deserve?